For anyone who's driving down I said I'd post directions since I'm the only one who really knows that area of the country.
Right you're better off taking the Carlow-Kilkenny route south to Clonmel. I'll assume you can find your way to Clonmel adequately.
When you come into the outskirts of Clonmel (you'll pass the Bulmer's or Showerings factory on your right) go straight through all the roundabouts, ie. don't go around the bypass. Drive until you come to a set of traffic lights. Take a left at these lights, go up that street over a bridge and straight on at the next roundabout. This road, if you stick to it will eventually bring you to Rathgormack, it's about five or so miles (maybe more).
Can't wait to see y'all, won't be there for Friday though . So Saturday tis then....
Later, M.