Killian, thanks for the site. Man and I thought that tying the knot was all that mattered. Now I realise that my life is so complete on my own, with no one to share it with... hang on I have friends and sometimes I have money. Maybe it will suck less if I have a little bit more cash. The dream is now a shack on a beach. I will sell shells with eyes on them to support my beach bum existence.