Carl you need to open up to the magical time of year that is Christmas!!! I mean how can you make a blunt statement like that, it's like hearing Bambi being told 'your mother isn't coming back' for the first time and not feeling anything - how can you smile at the little pleasures in life when you can't shout about the big ones? Also, appreciate after the 9th of December, the 8th is all about the partying!